Day 137 | Stop Letting Them Win. It Is Your Turn To Win!

Day 137 | Stop Letting Them Win. It Is Your Turn To Win!

Who is really winning here? Yes, I hear you, you have moved on. But you are still carrying with you all of the pain from your past experience. And now, you only see your current reality through the prism of that pain. So, let me ask you again—who is really winning here? It cannot be you. Remember, I just described your current situation. So, it must be the person, place, or thing that created the pain. They are winning. Your ex who cheated on you so now you refuse to get close to another person. They are winning. Your previous boss who always made you feel like a poor performer and now you do not strive for better jobs. They are winning right now. You ex-roommate which causes you to not trust anyone to share your space today. Yep, even they are winning right now. If you are carrying around pain, no one is winning right now but your past. And for as long as they continue to have this hold on you, their ability to win will always remain. Do you want to move on from it so that you can win? Okay, great. Then remember these two things. First, pain results from our judgment about a thing. Remove the judgement and the pain goes away. I read this in a really good book called Conversations with God. The second is about healing. Healing is only correcting a distorted perception. I read this in another great book called A Course in Miracles. Correct your perception and the healing begins. It is time for you to win, friend. Let anything that does not serve the purpose of you winning go. It is Go Time!

#KeepGoing, #KeepGrowing, #KeepGlowing

Sending you Love and Light,
Jennifer Tardy
Your Career Success Coach




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